De-Stressing My Work and Home

Dear Robert:

I believe that the environment that I live and work in creates stress for me. Can you tell me ways that I de-stress these environments?

Living in Stress

Dear Living in Stress,

The environment that we live and work in can either create stress or relaxation. It depends on what we do with those environments. In fact, our environment is one of three primary stress categories. The other two are social and physiological stressors. I would be happy to give you some tips on how to de-stress your work and home environment:
De-clutter – The more clutter that exists in your home, the more stressful it can be. I recommend the six month rule. If you haven’t used something in the last six months, Ebay it, give it to the Salvation Army, a friend or family member. I believe in Feng Shui, and have used it effectively in my own home. Feng Shui opens up the energy in a home. I found that it created spaciousness and increased energy in my home.

Comfortable Furniture – I would recommend finding furniture that is ergonomically correct. If you sit in a chair and find that it puts a strain on your back, or your neck, get rid of it or give it away. Replace it with furniture that works for your entire body.

Lighting – Bad lighting can cause eye strain. It is important to create the best possible lighting in your home and office. Even fluorescent lights can create a subtle yet stressful effect on the eyes. Halogen light and full spectrum light are the more relaxing forms of lighting.

Colors – Sometimes colors can be subtle, yet stress-inducing. Earth tones, greens and blues are the most soothing colors.

Scents – At home, you may want to consider incense, or aromatherapy such as green apple and lavender which are the most soothing. At work, scents, such as heavy perfumes, can sometimes be distracting and stress-inducing. You may want to consider recommending an aroma-free working environment. Some interesting information about scents: If you were born between 1900-1930- natural smells such as trees, hay, horse, and pine will relax you. If you were born between 1930-present-the smell of Playdough, Pez, and Sweet Tarts will relax you. If you were born in the Eastern United States, the smell of flowers will relax you. If you were born in the Midwest, you will find the smell of farm animals soothing. If you were born in the West, you will find the smell of meat barbecuing soothing and if you were born in the South, you will find the smell of fresh air soothing.

Poor ventilation – Poor ventilation, though subtle, can be stress-inducing. Poor ventilation can also cause headaches. You may want to try to bring as much natural air into an office or home.
Too much noise – Various types of noise can be very stressful. Constant ringing phones, sounds of traffic. Are there ways to reduce the levels of noise in your home or working environment? White noise can be a way to mask unpleasant noises and actually induce relaxation.

Too Cold or Too Hot – Extremes in temperature can be stress inducing. If someone in your home or office likes the environment either too hot or too cold, it may be important to find a happy medium – a temperature that is more in the midrange.

Decorate your home or office with uplifting, empowering and positive objects. What gives you positive feelings when you look at them? I personally love stained glass and find that by adding these objects in my environment it uplifts the area for me. What uplifts you?

Music – At home, choose music without lyrics and no emotional baggage.
Take breaks during your day. Dr. Stephen Rechstaffen, who wrote “Time Shifting” talks about creating personal pause buttons. Instead of answering your phone on the first ring, he suggests answering it on the second ring. Use the first ring to take a deep breath in. At lunch time, take a walk in nature and don’t. If you take a walk with a workmate, don’t talk business. It keeps you in stress mode. When you get home, shift yourself out of work mode, take a bath, or do something nurturing for yourself.

Add family pictures or pets in your office to help create a more relaxed and pleasant feeling.

Try to reduce your stressors one at a time. Don’t do it all at once.

I hope these suggestions were helpful!

Best of luck to you,

Robert L. Friedman

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